Man,
I'll give it to you plain and simple,Your true friend/ true love would give almost everything to make you happy (as long as it is appropriate of course- I'll get to that later), of course putting their own family first. They go out of their way to make sure that you are in a better mood than you were when you went to talk to them. They make sure that you understand how special and amazing you are but at the same time encouraging you to be better because they believe in you. They aren't afraid to tell you what you did wrong but say it with love. They love you for who you are but, like I said before, encourage you to be better.
A TF/TL would make sure to make you hate them before you did anything stupid that would really mess you up. They aren't afraid to argue with you because they know what is smart and right and what would keep you safe. If they give you advice, then LISTEN, don't just hear it, really honestly listen to what they are telling you, because it might be exactly what you need to hear. They should be able to know you just a little bit better than you know yourself, which I must admit gets really cool but really scary at the same time.
When you are with this person you feel comfortable, confident, happy, and most importantly, yourself. You feel like you don't have to worry because you are just talking to them, spending time with them, sharing something important with them, and they really care. You can trust this person more than any other friends you have. Of course you love your other friends, but this one is extra special =)
Most important of all, Your True Love (or whatever they are to you "bf/gf/spouse") SHOULD and BETTER BE your True Friend/Best Friend/"Partner in Crime". It doesn't necessarily go the other way around, but it can!
There is a huge difference between a good friend/great friend/amazing friend and a True Friend. They still til the end of your life...and then remain for forever =)
Happy New Year-May you find or make a True Friend and/or a True Love. ♥♥♥
People far and wide will read this one day and they'll love it just as I do. :) Oh and they'll also be jealous because they don't know you like I do. :)
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